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From Vocabulary Lists to Real Conversations

Writer: Aleksandra NinovicAleksandra Ninovic

Hey there, language lovers! Welcome back to The Social Expat, your cozy corner of the blogging world where we dive into all things language learning with a good dose of fun and just a pinch of nerdiness. I’m coach Nina, and today, we’re going to talk about something that might just blow your mind—or at least save you from stuffing it with a lot of useless information.



So, picture this: You’re at a big party. The music’s pumping, the snacks are flowing, and you’re introduced to a hundred people in the span of, like, ten minutes.


A hundred names!


Now, unless you’re some kind of memory wizard or you’ve got a hidden earpiece feeding you info, you’re probably not going to remember all those names by the end of the night.


And why is that? Well, because you didn’t actually talk to any of those people. You didn’t have a conversation, share a laugh, or make any kind of connection.


This, my friends, is exactly what it’s like when you try to memorize vocabulary lists. It’s like trying to remember those hundred names at the party. Without context—without actually using those words in real conversations, reading them in stories, or seeing them in action—they’re just random sounds and letters that your brain doesn’t know what to do with.


So, today, we’re going to chat about why memorizing vocabulary lists is not just a bad idea—it’s pretty much the equivalent of throwing a party for words in your brain and then not letting them mingle.


We’ll also talk about what you should be doing instead to make those words stick like glue. Ready? Let’s get into it!


Alright, so let’s break it down. Why is memorizing vocabulary lists such a bad idea? It seems like it should work, right? You see a word, you memorize its meaning, and boom, you’re done. But here’s the catch: Your brain doesn’t work like a filing cabinet where you can just stuff in words and pull them out later when you need them. It’s more like... a party! Yep, we’re sticking with this party analogy because it’s just that good.


When you memorize a list of words without any context, it’s like being introduced to a bunch of people at that party and then just standing in the corner, awkwardly sipping your drink, and not actually talking to anyone. Sure, you heard their names, but you didn’t make any connections. You didn’t get to know them, and so, by the end of the night, those names are just a blur.


In the same way, when you cram vocabulary into your head without any context—without seeing those words in sentences, using them in conversation, or experiencing them in real life—your brain doesn’t know what to do with them. They’re just floating around in there, and when the time comes to actually use them, poof! They’re gone.


Now, I’m not saying that memorizing words is completely useless. It’s just not the most effective way to actually learn a language. Think about it: How many times have you crammed for a test, memorized a bunch of stuff, aced the test, and then forgot everything by the next day? Yeah, exactly. That’s what happens when you memorize words out of context. You might remember them for a hot minute, but they won’t stick around for the long haul.


So, what should you be doing instead? Well, let’s get back to our party analogy. Instead of just hearing names and then retreating to the corner, what if you actually spent time talking to each person? You learn a little about them, maybe you share a joke, or find out you both love pineapple on pizza (or hate it, no judgment here). Suddenly, those names are much easier to remember because they’re tied to something real, something meaningful.


The same goes for learning vocabulary. Instead of just memorizing words, you need to interact with them. See them in action. Use them in conversation. Find them in the wild, whether it’s in a book, a movie, or a blog (wink, wink). When you learn a word in context, it’s like making a new friend at the party. You’re much more likely to remember it because it’s connected to something real—an experience, a feeling, or a story.


Let me give you an example. Let’s say you’re learning Spanish, and you come across the word “perro.” Now, you could just memorize that “perro” means “dog” and call it a day. But what if, instead, you learn the word in a sentence? Maybe you read a story about a little girl and her “perro” who love to play in the park. Now you’re not just memorizing the word—you’re seeing it in action. You’re imagining that cute dog running around, and suddenly, “perro” isn’t just a random word. It’s a word that means something to you.


Or better yet, what if you’re actually having a conversation in Spanish? Someone asks if you have a “perro,” and you respond, “Sí, tengo un perro.” That’s real-life usage, and it’s a thousand times more powerful than just staring at a list of words and hoping they’ll stick.


So, here’s the big takeaway, folks: Don’t throw a vocabulary party in your brain and then forget to let the words mingle. Instead, get out there and actually use the language you’re learning. Read, listen, speak, and write in that language as much as you can. Put those words into context, and watch how much easier it is to remember them.


Think of it like this: Your brain is like the ultimate social butterfly. It wants to make connections, form relationships, and create memories. When you learn vocabulary in context, you’re giving your brain exactly what it needs to do that. You’re not just memorizing words—you’re making friends with them. And trust me, those friendships are going to last a lot longer than any crammed vocabulary list ever will.


Alright, language lovers, that’s all we have for today! I hope this article has given you some fresh ideas on how to make vocabulary stick like glue—no more awkward parties in your brain, okay?


Remember, learning a language is all about making connections, having fun, and letting those words really come to life.


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Thanks for tuning in to The Language Lounge, and until next time, keep learning, keep laughing, and keep those vocabulary parties lively!



 

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