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'I moved for love... and somewhere along the way, I lost my voice...
I lost myself.'
You left behind your career, your family, your language.
You built a new life abroad — one full of beautiful places and new beginnings —
but somehow… you became quieter.
You watch others chat at school pick‑ups or neighborhood gatherings.
You smile. You nod. You rehearse a sentence five times in your head…
and then — you say nothing.
You come home, exhausted from silence, replaying the words you never said.
And deep down, you whisper to yourself:
“I used to be confident. What happened to me?”
The truth?
It’s not your English.
It’s your emotional safety that disappeared the day you stopped feeling seen.
You don’t need another grammar app.
You need someone who understands what it feels like to freeze, blush, or apologize for simply existing in another language.
Because this isn’t just about words.
It’s about worth.
It’s about visibility.
It’s about finding yourself again — in English, and in life.
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INTRODUCING...
Speak Up Starter
A gentle, neuroscience‑based 1:1 coaching session that helps expat women move from silent and self‑doubting… to confident, calm, and connected.
Through a blend of language coaching, mindset rewiring, and emotional resilience techniques, you’ll uncover what’s really holding you back — and learn how to finally speak with ease and self‑trust.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
This is for you if...
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You live abroad and understand English, but speaking it makes you tense or embarrassed.
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You avoid conversations because you’re scared of being judged or corrected.
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You feel small and apologetic in social situations — and hate yourself for it later.
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You know your English isn’t “perfect,” but deep down you just want to feel yourself again.
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You’re ready to stop hiding behind your silence and start showing up as the woman you truly are.
WHAT WE'LL DO TOGETHER
You’ll learn my signature VOICE Method™
A science‑backed, heart‑led process that transforms language anxiety into confidence, clarity, and connection.
V - Validate
We identify and validate your emotional blocks — fear of judgment, perfectionism, shame, or past embarrassment — so your nervous system finally feels safe to express itself. When your brain feels safe, your voice returns.
O - Own
You learn to own your story, your accent, your background, your pace.
We reframe “mistakes” as signs of courage, not failure.
You stop apologizing and start owning your English — as part of your identity, not a flaw.
I - Immerse
We create gentle, real‑life immersion moments — conversations that matter, not textbook scripts.
You’ll practice how to enter conversations, stay present, and recover gracefully when words don’t come out perfectly.
C - Cultivate
Together, we cultivate confidence with practical rituals and self‑talk techniques.
You’ll learn how to regulate your breathing, quiet your inner critic, and reset quickly when anxiety strikes.
E - Express
Finally, you’ll express yourself freely — without overthinking every word.
You’ll walk away with a renewed sense of joy, connection, and self‑trust — in English, and in your whole identity.
Each session is a safe space to be seen, heard, and supported — in English and in who you’re becoming.
WHAT YOU GET
Your 1:1 Coaching Experience
This 60-minute session is tailored entirely to you.
✦ 60-Minute 1:1 Coaching Session (Zoom)
We’ll uncover what’s really keeping you silent — and begin releasing it together.
✦ Personalized Emotional Fluency Map
A custom PDF that outlines your emotional triggers, limiting beliefs, and specific confidence-boosting strategies.
✦ Your Speak-Up Ritual
A calming pre-conversation routine (audio + text) to use before school drop-offs, appointments, or events — so your nervous system knows you’re safe.
✦ 3-Day WhatsApp Support
Have an upcoming event? I’ll be in your pocket — cheering you on, helping you regulate, and celebrating every brave word.
✦ Bonus: Reflection Journal
You’ll receive 5 guided journaling prompts to help you integrate your new confidence, notice your progress, and deepen your voice from the inside out.
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CLIENT LOVE
MEET THE SOCIAL EXPAT WOMEN
YOUR INVESTMENT
This 60-min session is tailored entirely to you.
Limited spaces each month — because this work is deep, personal, and high‑touch.
Speak Up Starter
147€This isn’t a lesson. It’s a transformation — held gently in one private, high-impact experience.- 60‑minute 1:1 private session Google Meet)
- Personalized Emotional Fluency Map
- Speak‑Up Ritual (audio + text)
- 3‑day WhatsApp note support
- 5 Reflection prompts for integration
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"I used to avoid conversations because I felt my English wasn’t ‘good enough.’ Aleksandra helped me shift my mindset, and now I actually enjoy speaking! Her unique blend of language coaching and emotional support changed everything for me. My social anxiety is finally under control, and I feel free to connect with others."
Nina, expat in Denmark
A Year from Now You Will Have Wished You Started Today!
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Imagine walking into a room and speaking without overthinking.
Imagine feeling proud of your accent — because it tells your story.
Imagine laughing freely, introducing yourself with ease, and finally feeling seen.
You don’t have to wait to “feel ready.”
Confidence is built one brave conversation at a time.
You're stronger than you think you are.
But if you're anything like me, you need some help to take your superpower to the next level.
I’m not here to tell you to “just get out there and meet people.” You’ve probably already tried that. Instead, I offer a roadmap to peeling back the layers of who you are not, allowing you to rediscover the empowered, confident woman you are beneath the surface.
Through 8 years of expat experience, I’ve developed proven tools and strategies to help you overcome feelings of isolation and self-doubt. Whether it’s through mindset work, practical English coaching, or personalized expat guidance, you’ll gain everything you need to stop feeling like a ghost in your own life and start thriving.
You're in the right place!
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Confidence isn’t born from perfection. It’s born from self-acceptance.
ALEKSANDRA NINOVIC
THIS COACHING HAS IT ALL
If you want to break free from fear, shame and solitude. If you want to live smarter, not harder. If you want your new life more meaningful.
Listen carefully.
We don't have time to waste on things that are not in our zone of genius. That's why we pay professionals to do things for us that we can't do ourselves. The same goes for building your new life as an expat. Why bang your head against the wall when it comes to finally breaking down one of the biggest barriers to your happy life when you can get clear steps from someone who has already been in your shoes and can take you where you want to see yourself.
I've invested:
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14 years of teaching English as a second language that led me to amazingly beautiful expat stories;
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1,800+ hours finding the best ways I can help my fellow expat women find their own paths;
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7 years drilling through the challenges on my personal expat journey through 3 countries and 3 languages;
...so you don't have to.
I still invest thousands of hours and dollars every year to learn more from people who can provide me with a perspective I don't have now and shorten my journey by saving my most valuable currency - TIME.
I also work with people who can point out the right time for the right steps. And who also encourage me to step on the gas when I would rather hit the brakes.
I suggest the same for you.
Stop postponing your freedom, waiting for a better moment, and believing in the excuses that fear and shame serve you. They do not!
The limits are only where you set them. You are your best investment. And the time to act is now.
Not because it objectively ever is, but because YOU CHOOSE IT TO BE!
If you want clarity, focus, and transformative experience toward expat life confidence and anxiety-free life, click the button below.
And remember!
I did it. So can you.
''I remember taking a firm step towards overcoming fear back in February – I decided to deepen my English knowledge with a teacher I met in Switzerland. Until then, speaking English caused me tremendous anxiety. Just the thought of speaking would block my mind, and it was often difficult to express myself as I wanted. But today, I can smile and say with relief – this fear has been conquered! I can confidently communicate and express myself. Thank you, @the.social.expat, for helping me.''
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ERNESTA
Expot in Amsterdam, Egosque coach
This is for you if:
You need to make space for your true self to come through;
You are a woman who's recently moved abroad, but finds herself stuck in anxiety;
You are ready to shed the skin that doesn’t fit, strip away the layers of expectations, and rediscover who you want to become in this new chapter of life.
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It's probably not for you if:
You are unwilling to confront your social anxiety;
You are looking for a quick fix without putting in consistent effort;
You are not open to personal growth, mindset shifts and embracing vulnerability.
SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
Ready to Speak Up?
This isn’t about fluency. It’s about freedom.
Let’s rediscover your voice — not the perfect one, but the real one.
Your accent, your pauses, your courage — they all tell a story.
You don’t have to keep hiding behind silence.
Your voice didn’t disappear when you moved.
It’s right here, waiting for you to speak.
Let this be the moment you say,
“I’m ready to be heard.”
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FREQUENTLY ASKED
QUESTIONS
I'VE BEEN ABROAD FOR OVER A YEAR, BUT STILL FEEL STUCK. IS THIS PROGRAM FOR ME?
Yes! Social Expat is designed for women who’ve been abroad for 6+ months, whether that’s 7 months or several years. If you’re struggling with feeling disconnected from yourself or your new environment, this program will help you regain your confidence and sense of belonging.
WHAT IF MY ENGLISH ISN"T GOOD ENOUGH?
That’s exactly what we’re here for! I provide English language support tailored to your needs so you can feel more comfortable and confident in every situation.
I'M INTROVERTED AND DON'T LIKE SOCIAL EVENTS. WILL THIS PROGRAM WORK FOR ME?
Absolutely! Social Expat isn’t about forcing you into situations that make you uncomfortable. It’s about helping you build authentic connections and confidence on your terms.
HOW IS SOCIAL EXPAT DIFFERENT FROM OTHER EXPAT COACHING PROGRAMS?
Unlike traditional programs that focus solely on logistics or surface-level advice, Social Expat takes a deeper approach by blending mindset reframing with practical English language coaching. It’s designed to help you rediscover your sense of self while giving you the tools to confidently navigate social situations abroad.
I STRUGGLE WITH SOCIAL ANXIETY. WILL THIS PROGRAM PUSH ME INTO UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATIONS?
No! Social Expat meets you where you are. If social anxiety is a challenge for you, we’ll work together to gently reframe your mindset, build your confidence, and create strategies that make social interactions feel more comfortable—without forcing you into high-stress environments.
I'M NERVOUS ABOUT OPENING UP ABOUT MY PERSONAL STRUGGLES. HOW DO I KNOW THIS WILL BE A SAFE SPACE?
I’ve been where you are, and I understand how vulnerable this process can feel. Social Expat is designed to be a safe, non-judgmental space where you can express yourself fully. Every conversation is confidential, and my priority is making sure you feel supported and understood throughout the journey.
I'M A MOM. WILL I HAVE TIME FOR THIS?
Absolutely! As a mom and trailing partner myself, I understand how overwhelming life abroad can be. The program is designed to be flexible around your schedule, with a realistic action plan that fits your life.
WHAT IF A MISS A SESSION?
Life can be unpredictable! If you miss a session, please notify me as soon as possible. We can reschedule your session to ensure you receive the full benefit of the program. However, sessions missed without prior notice may not be rescheduled.
HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE BEFORE I START SEEING RESULTS?
Many clients begin feeling a sense of relief and empowerment after just a few weeks. The full 3-month program is designed to provide sustainable, long-term growth, with each session building on the last to help you feel more confident and grounded over time.
WHAT IF I NEED MORE SUPPORT AFTER THE 12-WEEK PROGRAM ENDS?
You’ll have the option to continue with monthly check-ins or additional support sessions after the 12 weeks if you feel you need more guidance.